I went to Ethiopia 17 months ago for a 30 day vacation. I met this girl during my stay and i really liked her. I extended my stay for 2 more months. I proposed to her before my return and she accepted. Then we got married in small ceremony. Then I came back to US and start the process to bring her. After year and half everything was finished and she got the visa. Few weeks ago, She came to the city where i am.
…. Well you know how happy you will be when everything goes smooth like that and meet your love. But here comes the bombshell ! When she came, she was six months pregnant. I already told you i was in Ethiopia 16 months ago and it is clear that i am not the father. She was sad to see me and shivering. But she told me before i even ask that she made a mistake, it is from her Ex boyfriend .. and wanted to get an abortion but doctors told her that is dangerous because of her health situation. I was speechless and couldnt say anything at that moment. Me silent, She silently crying i took her home. She is still with me – 3 weeks now. All her immigration process is on my hand if i want to do something to hurt her. At the same time, i dont know what to do. She is saying that she will send the baby back home once it is delivered and she loves only me. People and family around me say a lot of different things, I am very confused – seriously ” (Mr. No name from Midwest USA).